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from Montreal to Toronto passing by Lebanon

We took a train to be far from the city, and right on the highway to Toronto. Then we walked about 3 km to be on a good spot.

It starts to become difficult. It is the second time when we wait more than 2 hours. I made all the tricks: to dance,to show the 5$ bill, to go through the cars and to show people Emilie and the luggage. Now I write on the laptop waiting for a lift, so the people can see that we are not dangerous …. I am clueless. There are parts of the globe which are more individualistic than others. I should not fight against, just to detect and act accordingly.

So in Quebec, is a very bad hitch. I have to go to look for a bugs.

We give up and want to go back to the train station, and catch a bus from Montreal. But, we start again in front of a gas station: we said to each other, let’s try again… More 2 hours: that’s really bad, nobody stops, nobody looks at us. Emilie want to lay down a bit before we are going to the station, frustrated.

BUT, just at this moment, a guy came: our saviour!

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Radwan is from Lebanon, he is a yoga teacher, acupuncturist, shiatsu therapist. We made more than 500 kms together. He made a detour to show us the “Thousand islands”. 

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He told us that he cannot practice anymore his profession, because everything became very regulated in Canada, and even the assurance companies don’t discount anymore for this type of services. It’s only the mainstream health system which is supported, with its lobby of big pharma. It is somehow like with the farm, because there are so many rules, small producers cannot afford them, so only big, industrial farms can resist. So less concurrence, bigger prices, less quality and innovation.

History of Lebanon in 3 sentences: Israel after winning the war in 1973, pushes Palestinian resistance in Lebanon. They are settled in temporary camps. Without any international support, they remain in Lebanon for a while, then they start to fight against the pacific Lebanese government. This is the start of the civil war in Lebanon. After several years, Israel invades Lebanon to ‘bring peace’ and to search after Hamas resistance, sent from Iran. So Lebanon, from the ‘Switzerland of Middle East’, with the most developed democracy in the area, became scene of war with actors from all its neighbours.

After the short rain…

… last night we are really tired. We wait 20 cars, until someone tells us that for Quebec City we should wait in another place. After another 20 cars, more but less frequent, we don’t have the time to make the sign, and a big car stops and opens the door.

We got in, a mother with her 4 kids. Since they were watching a movie, the musical Grease, it was very good to sleep. At a moment the movie was stop, because she was speaking with her husband. He had a lazy voice and they were speaking about nothing.

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The movies resumes as my half sleep.

When the movies ends, Lisa tells us that she is native, Mi’k’maq, director of a school.

Her ex-husband is in a clinic for drug addiction. He is very bad. He is son of university professors, he inherited a huge house, and a lot of land, but he lost everything in 2 years, due to drugs. The drugs and alcohol are the biggest problem of the community.

‘yeah, when the people get everything granted, it’s normal to try to spice their lives’: this was my image and is the common thought of Canadian tax payer.

But there is a big scandal of a lot of child abuse and common graves of native children obliged to be shelter in establishments of the church. When these children returned in their communities, they started all bad things in order to forget, and what’s worse, themselves became abuser of their children.

It’s only this year that the government apologised for the treatment against the natives. The Catholic church did several years ago. The good thing is that now the native communities receive all needed support: psychologists, sociologists, but it will take some generations until the wounds will be healed.
Her son is 16 and he wants to become anthropologist. He says it’s difficult for a 600 people community to resist the assimilation, but that he will try to continue the traditions.

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Lisa recommended us to read about and she invited us to visit the reservation next to Montreal.

Drive truck from Moncton to Noware

It’s 3:52 AM, we are in a gas station. We are the only clients.

In these almost 3 months of traveling, we’ve got only twice rain, but I would say it was a bombardment highly precise. The prevision for this morning: sunny; this evening it was so beautiful. So what’s the best plan to end a hitch hike day ? … to put the hammock in the woods next to the highway gas station. We ate an imperial supper grace to Alina (I highly recommend the previous post), admiring the city below our table. Some vaporous clouds gave more rhythm to the sky of the sunset. It was so beautiful that even the few mosquitos couldn’t bother. I put the rain cover over the hammock, just to test it a second time. We got to the suspended bed, and it started a stronger wind. It was just good enough to cover the last shadow of the highway noise. I woke up hearing some remote thunders. Then it started to rain. What we shall we do ? to try to resist or ? … but wait, the sleeping bags are already wet. Damn cover, I paid a fortune, and it’s not good at all, it gets pockets of water and then it’s useless. This is a good opportunity to do something better.

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Until then, we are two SDF – homeless people in the gas station. If we would have a dog … It looks that a rain is enough to make us cross the line. Hey man, do you know where I used to work ? You don’t believe me ? We could travel with a goat. We would have milk and cheese. She could eat anywhere grass. There are a lot of places where they don’t allow dogs.

Yesterday 9 pm I refused 10 dollars. Now I think that I made a mistake, it was only the pride.

4pm Claudiu let us on a good hitchhiking spot, but with two entries to the highway. We went to the one which came from the city. After 5 minutes, a truck which came from the 2nd entry horned. Chris was going to Ontario, so he was passing by Québec !

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He works for a company which delivers tires for big trucks used in mining. He has a Mustang, a snow-mobil, a ski-jet, you know, big stuff.

IMG_2259He joked about European cars, Fiat 500. He fishes under the ice, he hunts bears. He travels only in ‘G20 countries’. I think I am too ironic, I don’t remember exactly what we talked all the way long (almost 5 hours), but we had all the time an interesting chat: animals in Canada, working conditions in US, cars. He stopped the truck to show us a moose.

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It was about 8:30 pm. I preferred to spend the evening in the hammock, to hitchhike during the night, and to arrive to late in the city. He left us in a gas parking, invited us for dinner, but we had to hurry to install on light the hammock. After that, we hurried to meet him. He saw us while going to the highway, then made a small detour: he offered me a bill of 10 dollars.

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Une longue journée – 329 km en stop

Il est 9h30, nous nous disons au revoir: Betty me prend dans ses bras les larmes aux yeux, puis me glisse un petit mot dans mon sac. Nous n’arrivons pas à ouvrir le coffre, ‘no problem, you can stay…’ dit-elle. Je sens mon coeur se serrer, pourquoi partons-nous? Qu’allons-nous chercher si loin?

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Nous avons decidé de partir pour pouvoir dire bonjour aux Québecois avant d’attraper un autre cousin de Dan à Toronto avant qu’il ne s’envole pour l’Europe. IMG_2225

L’aventure nous reprend bras dessus, bras dessous et nous voilà en compagnie de Fred, ancien militaire: à sa retraite, il a appris qu’est ce que la vie civile, réapprendre comment parler aux gens sans leur donner des ordres…

Nous avons voulu faire un petit détour par PEI, ou la plus petite province du Canada, Prince Edward Island, avant d’aller à Moncton, où nous attend un ami d’un ami de Dan… Fred nous amène jusqu’à une intersection, avant même qu’on ait fini de sortir les bagages du coffre, une voiture qui prend la route pour aller au ferry ralentit et fini par s’arrêter.

IMG_2228Le conducteur c’est Georges, 92 ans, 5 enfants et 12 petits-enfants (pas tous dans la voiture…) son secret de longévité? pas  de tabac, pas de liqueurs et une bonne épouse! Il a fait un détour pour nous amener jusqu’au ferry, encore un gentil…

IMG_2232Tout tombe parfaitement, le ferry part dans 10 minutes, le temps de monter, de trouver un espace pour nos bagages et nous voilà sur le pont: le temps est magnifique et c’est le vent de la liberté qui souffle.

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Je regarde un peu autour de moi, des touristes pour la plupart, j’ai l’impression d’etre dans une croisière de vieux européens en recherche d’aventure… De loin, nous apercevons PEI, la terre rouge tranche sur le bleu profond de l’océan. Nous débarquons: Dan est occupé à montrer son pouce, le temps que je m’aperçois doucement que nous n’avons pas payé, un couple de retour de vacances nous font monter dans leur voiture: lui fête aujourd’hui ses 50 ans!

PEI, 160 000 habitants, vit du tourisme et de l’agriculture (surtout des patates, avez-vous deja pense faire  un gateau au chocolat aux patates???).

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Dans la famille de ce couple, deux neveux font un carton international www.tenstringsandagoatskin.com (ils jouent à Belvezet en juilllet, avis aux campagnards du coin…), un des frères a un spectacle qui tourne en sold out partout au Canada (www.lenniegallant.com) etc…

IMG_2234 Ils nous posent à Charlottetown, la ville principale de PEI, 60 000 habitants. On a essayé de laisser les bagages à la bibliothèque en espérant pouvoir faire un tour de la ville, mais la roue de la chance a un peu tourné: on ne peut pas, les gens ne sont pas très sympa, alors on décide de reprendre la route pour rejoindre Moncton. La roue a vraiment tourné, nous attendons près de 2 heures avant d’avoir un ride, malgré les différentes stratagèmes employés (notamment jouer du violoncelle):

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Loyd, mécanicien épicurien nous sauve de notre carrefour pour nous amener jusqu’au plus long pont du  monde qui relie PEI au continent: 13 km. Le passage du pont coûte 45$, et nous apprenons que le ferry de ce matin est simplement gratuit. Les responsables du tourisme ont estimé que les gens devaient forcément passer par le pont au moins une fois pour venir ou partir de l’île…

DSC_0095Linda prend la relève et fait un détour pour nous et voir cet impressionnant ouvrage de la terre ferme, une, deux, trois arches, dix, douze… je n’arrive pas a les compter. Linda a le temps de faire beaucoup de bénévolat, elle a habité dans toutes les régions du Canada, puisque son mari devait se déplacer pour la RCPM (la police montée canadienne avec leur beaux manteaux rouges). IMG_2236

Sur le pont

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Une fois à Moncton, la relève est prise par Claudiu, l’ami de l’ami de Dan… Décidément, nous avons beaucoup de chance, toutes les personnes que nous rencontrons sont pleines de bonne énergie, prêtes à nous aider, nous montrer leur pays, faire des détours… Oui, je sais pourquoi nous sommes partis ce matin, nous cherchons l’échange, la découverte et le partage. Nous aimons le changement et les vagues de l’aventure.

change your life

He had seen us on his road, and he said that he takes us if we are still there. We were waiting for 20 minutes in a bad spot to hitchhike. He spent 5 minutes to pack his stuff to make space for our luggage in his Mini and made a several kms detour to let us in a good place to hitchhike.

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Dave is from Nova Scotia and he is web designer. This winter was so tough, that in April he took his family for 2 weeks in Mexico, near Cancun. There he realised that he could live under the sun all the time. So when he came back, he arranged with his company to work remote. His wife needed a break from a demanding job. The school is much cheaper for his teen son. So in december they’ll be in a fishermen village, in a house on the sea, 20 minutes from Cancun. His parents are living at half an hour distance, but they meet once every two weeks, and very briefly. When relatives and friends will come visit them in Mexico, the time spent together probably will be more dense and fruitful.

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Nice exchange of experiences!